I feel like such a horrible person. Frank called me and was quite upset. He got a call from his sister, Elisabeth, saying that their aunt is in the hospital not too far from us and it's not looking real good. Frank feels like he has to go and see her, but I tried to explain to him that she's in intensive care and they only usually let in immediate family. But if he decides to go I totally support his decision. I will not be going with him though. His aunt and uncle have not been very nice to me.....reason being, I do not have the right skin color. Frank's mom is not coming to see her own sister unless it's at the end of her life....how selfish is that. His mom didn't even bother to call him and tell him what is going on, she felt she needed to call Elisabeth in Florida and have her call Frank. Granted we haven't talked to her in a few years, but come on she could have called Frank, not to mention Frank's cousins could have called him before it got this far and he could have gone to see his aunt before her surgery. I'm so tired of dealing with selfish people, yet I feel I'm being selfish because I have no desire to go and see anyone in his family. Frank is so much closer with my family because they treat him like he's part of the familyt. Frank's family have always looked down at me and my family....I'm sorry my skin is not white, but I am who I am, take me or leave me. We have done so much for his family, from loaning money to his sister, watching his brother's kids, and letting his stepbrother and his crazy girlfriend live with us and we paid their way, not to mention that the girlfriend stole from me. Anyway, I'm feeling guilty because I refuse to go to the hospital....I don't want to be around people who don't want me there.